Problems With Premature Ejaculation
It's possible that your husband's rapid ejaculation has gotten him so down that he's withdrawing from sex. If
so, that can be easily remedied. Quite often, when a man gains good ejaculatory control, he suddenly becomes much
more interested in sex. And even if he doesn't, it might be nicer for both of you if he lasted longer.
Faced with involuntary ejaculation, most men try to distract themselves during intercourse, believing that by
thinking about other things, they can trick themselves into lasting longer. Usually, that only makes things
worse.
Don't tune out your body. TUNE INTO IT. You need to become more familiar with your different levels of
sexual arousal. You also need to recognize how you feel as you approach your point of ejaculatory inevitability,
the "point of no return." Once you recognize how you feel close to your point of no return, it's not difficult to
make small sexual adjustments that allow you to remain highly aroused without ejaculating.
Sexual arousal is a four-phase process. In the Excitement Phase, breathing deepens and erection begins. In the
Plateau Stage, erection becomes full and you feel highly aroused. When arousal builds to a certain point, the next
phase occurs, Orgasm with Ejaculation. Then during the Resolution Phase, breathing returns to normal and erection
subsides. The key to ejaculatory control is to extend the Plateau Phase, to maintain arousal without triggering
Orgasm and Ejaculation.
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